It's been awhile...
... since i've been drunk yet able to form semi coherent and logical reasonings and arguments about a subject matter...I surprise myself sometimes.
I also attempted to have a soberish conversation with the future mother-in-law... about wedding preparations, yadda yadda yadda.... she advised that I should really consider making my cheongsam and kua in Shanghai next month... but when I objected by saying I haven't lost the weight i wanted to lose yet for the wedding, she very diplomatically tried to put me at ease by saying:
"It's Oklah... you're not THAT.... F...err... Big what!"
C'mon... it's 10 months to go... alot can happen by then!
